Re: [Reality-TV-Fanatics] off topic

by Crime Time Tamil on September 26, 2020

I'm sorry for your loss. Losing a spouse is so difficult.

Dementia is hard. My mom died in hospice four years ago after a long fight. My sister and I were with her and the three of us shared a beautiful moment at her death.

Bless you.

On Fri, Sep 25, 2020 at 3:33 PM Bren brencrow@gmail.com [Reality-TV-Fanatics] <Reality-TV-Fanatics@yahoogroups.com> wrote:

You were so very blessed to have had such a long marriage.
You are in my prayers. I lost mine 11 years ago but we only had ten years together.
Bren :)

On Fri, Sep 25, 2020 at 3:17 PM Mary Landers maryeland@aol.com [Reality-TV-Fanatics] <Reality-TV-Fanatics@yahoogroups.com> wrote:

I am so sorry for you loss, Sharon. You have my deepest sympathies.

Mary

Live long and prosper

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From: SHARON ceegee2006@yahoo.com [Reality-TV-Fanatics] <Reality-TV-Fanatics@yahoogroups..com>

Sent: Fri, Sep 25, 2020 1:16 pm

Subject: [Reality-TV-Fanatics] off topic

I know some are probably in some other groups/facebook where I posted this yesterday as I am getting questions .

My husband of 59 years passed away after 3 years of dementia . It was his heart that just gave out He was 84.

The funeral is next Thursday Oct 1.

We are fine and I hope no one takes this the wrong way.

He worked hard all his working years retiring at age 72 . He loved fishing and went fishing alot during work years and for a few years after. He started dementia when he was 79 but was more noticeable then in 2019 he had to go to a nursing home to have 24/7 care. He would get so frustrated because he couldn't remember things, couldn't even go fishing . His year in the nursing home he was well cared for . Dementia is something you never can be cured of and only gets worse. He would not want to be that way. So Weds after a few bad days of not sleeping and not eating he then went to sleep and slept most of the day /They said he blood rate was low. On Thursday they called and said maybe we need to come visit as it might be just a matter or weeks .He just went to sleep and never woke up . It was peaceful./ At least he is at peace ad he can remember everything and go fishing with the other fishermen