Re: [FunBBGroup] JC vs. Bailey

by Crime Time Tamil on July 24, 2018

Yeah. I mean B is a beautiful pageant winner. So it's a lot different being her than JC. I'm taking a culture and diversity class right now so I found the exchange really interesting. Yes baileigh was hung up on a word at first and stubbornly only seeing that. She wasn't seeing JC's point of view or looking at his intent. I think the N eyes is more triggering than M or any other. It still holds so much power to make someone feel shame and trauma. I was glad she got past it, I felt like it was healthy for both of them to connect that way.

On Mon, Jul 23, 2018 at 11:42 PM 'Crystal Krantz' lovebarbie@roadrunner.com [FunBBGroup] <FunBBGroup@yahoogroups.com> wrote:

I agree... both were bullied. I just didn't get why Baleigh was so upset with JC when she basically used a word that was derogatory to him, and she refused for so long to agree that both were wrong to use the words they used.
She said it was ok for her to use the M- word because it was a question, and that his was a statement, so not ok... that was so silly (he was just trying to explain to her how bad the M-word is to him by making a comparison of what would be equally insulting to her).

Crystal

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Baleigh obviously is very sensitive and has some baggage from being bullied when she was younger! Glad they made up. Both have have had people tease and bully them.
Jeff
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On Jul 23, 2018, at 1:23 AM, 'Crystal Krantz' lovebarbie@roadrunner.com [FunBBGroup] <FunBBGroup@yahoogroups.com> wrote:

What the heck? I was so frustrated with the argument between JC and Bailey... it was obvious to me all he was trying to do is make a comparison between what is offensive to him as what would be offensive to her. (even with his language barrier) I don't think it was fair of her to say the she could use the word in a question and he couldn't use it in his "statement". He wasn't trying to call her that word. To me both did the same thing, but she kept saying what he did was different just because of the way he formed the sentence.

Crystal

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