Re: [FunBBGroup] welcome back kristie

by Crime Time Tamil on October 22, 2017

Yeah I plan to set down some rules at that point, and I told my husband there would have to be. We discussed the fact that we will probably have something built and be buying all new furniture to make it nice, something we can be proud of for our family and friends to come over and visit and stuff. Not to mention I want to be able to decorate and make it feel like home, hang my pictures, etc. That means rules, I told him I refuse to allow it to be trashed or beat up. Once it becomes our investment, I will be protecting it tooth and nail.

This house we we fix it up we could get far more than probably what we will get, like probably 250-260k if they didn't beat it up so badly over the years and abuse it. Instead we are going to have to settle for 180k to sell it as is. I'm not going to allow that to happen when it comes our new house.

Kristie

From: FunBBGroup@yahoogroups.com <FunBBGroup@yahoogroups.com> on behalf of Natalieav2@aol.com [FunBBGroup] <FunBBGroup@yahoogroups.com>
Sent: Sunday, October 22, 2017 9:03 AM
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Subject: Re: [FunBBGroup] welcome back kristie

I'm so sorry for all the trouble you've been having. Hopefully moving will help with things. Will your step sons be moving with you? Maybe you guys can set some new rules if they want to live with you? This new house will be YOURS and your husbands home and maybe setting some rules and insisting they respect you and your home and have them help out will work.

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From: Kristie Daniel ReignaX@msn.com [FunBBGroup] <FunBBGroup@yahoogroups.com>
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Sent: Sat, Oct 21, 2017 9:55 pm
Subject: Re: [FunBBGroup] welcome back kristie

Sounds good to me! Thanks, haven't really been gone just quiet. Just super busy with life.

Work has been keeping me on my toes, and then on the weekends we've been busy between helping do repairs on the house my best friend bought and then several weekends moving my mother in law out of her house and husband fixing stuff there. Now we have to start weeding most of our crap out as we are going to get rid of most of or all of our furniture and stuff and he's wanting to sell this house at the start of next year and finally buy a house together. He had this one built with his first wife and they closed on it in 1999. I guess he's finally ready to let it go. My 23 year old step son threw a temper tantrum about it though, and said some really hurtful and hateful things to his dad last night when he was told by his dad about him putting the house up for sale at the start of the year. He acts like he owns the house and treats the house as if he does too since I've lived here. He parks in the driveway and I have to park my car in the street, he puts his clothes clean and dirty all down the only hallway in the house you have to walk over them or skip around them to get to the main bathroom for the entire house (Other bathroom is in the master bedroom). I can't have guests over because of him it's so embarrassing, this house has never felt like a true home to me. He leaves his clothes that he takes off and shoes in the kitchen or the living room. I can't use the main living room at all because it's his junk room basically. I gave up a long time ago trying to keep anything more than the family room where I relax and have my TV set up, the master bedroom and bathroom, and kitchen clean. The spaces that I use, and even the kitchen if they use it more with cooking I have drawn a line that I refuse to clean up after them. His 32 year old step son from his first marriage lives with us too and both do not lift a finger to help around this house, my son who is 21 that lives with us is the only one that does anything to help. He does the dishes and takes out the trash. It's so frustrating and my husband is pretty powerless to do anything about his son, and the 32 year old ex step son well has ptsd from being in the Military so it's like walking on eggshells with him. He's lived with us 2 1/2 years now. Sorry that I'm ranting I'm just so frustrated by the situation, his ex wife waited on her kids and they never had chores or anything and it is just crazy, and part of their laziness is the fact that both of them smoke pot all the time. Then my step son will preach and act like a religious person being all judgemental.

Kristie

From: FunBBGroup@yahoogroups.com <FunBBGroup@yahoogroups.com> on behalf of t10light01@aol.com [FunBBGroup] <FunBBGroup@yahoogroups.com>
Sent: Saturday, October 21, 2017 8:26 PM
To: FunBBGroup@yahoogroups.com
Subject: Re: [FunBBGroup] welcome back kristie

I wanted to change the subject line......I admit it

It'll be good to not read all the fighting. I know I haven't piped up, but I've been around reading it not always as it's going on since I generally just catch up on emails on the weekends.

I'm just surprised you didn't do this sooner Natalie, we've never had any drama in this group since we began in this one. We are all generally pretty tight knit and respectful of each other and I think that mainly comes from a genuine closeness and friendship.

Kristie

From: FunBBGroup@yahoogroups.com <FunBBGroup@yahoogroups.com> on behalf of Jeff Nelson JEFFNC1@GMAIL.COM [FunBBGroup] <FunBBGroup@yahoogroups.com>
Sent: Wednesday, October 4, 2017 2:24 PM
To: FunBBGroup@yahoogroups.com
Subject: Re: [FunBBGroup] Removed CG

Understand

Jeff

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On Oct 4, 2017, at 2:47 PM, Natalie Natalieav2@aol.com [FunBBGroup] <FunBBGroup@yahoogroups.com> wrote:

I just wanted to let the group know that I went ahead and removed CG from the group. Like I said, I really didn't want to have to do it, and I think I gave her as many chances as I possibly could. But it's come to a point where it only gets better for a short amount of time and then it happens again. I know I let the talk about gun control go and I even responded thinking that if she was going to post that I would just respond. But it really ends up getting out of hand where she starts posting more and more. And she has been told so many times from so many different people in the group that they don't want political talk here. I hope everyone can understand why I did it, I truly didn't want to. But I thought it was best for the group since that appears to be the only conflict that can't be resolved.

Natalie

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